My 2024 began with a mix of highs and lows. Despite an early setback in January, when my small coffee business unfortunately went bankrupt, I gained invaluable lessons about entrepreneurship – lessons that I know will serve me well in the future. February brought a fresh start with a new job, a new challenge, and a wealth of new learning experiences. This role has given me a real sense of fulfillment, as I have the opportunity to educate and teach others. I even had the chance to travel to our out-of-town branch, adding another exciting dimension to my work.
However, 2024 also brought profound pain. In April, my father became ill, succumbing to complications from long-term illnesses including diabetes and hypertension. Witnessing his suffering over the weeks that followed was incredibly difficult and stressful for our entire family. On May 5th, God finally called him home, releasing him from his pain. This experience taught me invaluable lessons about life, death, and the importance of cherishing every moment. I find comfort in knowing that Papa is now in a better place with the Lord.
The losses didn’t end there. Just months after my father’s passing, my aunt also became ill, followed by my uncle. Losing three siblings in such a short period has been deeply painful. We find solace in believing they are together and watching over us. I’ve come to see these difficult times as a “pruning” process orchestrated by God. While incredibly painful, I believe these experiences are preparing us for what lies ahead.
Amidst the grief, 2024 also brought some incredible opportunities. I had my first international travel experience, attending the Canton Fair in China. It was an exciting, albeit stressful and tiring, adventure. Immersing myself in Chinese culture, experiencing the food, and observing their way of life was eye-opening. Seeing firsthand how developed China is compared to the Philippines was truly remarkable.
My professional life has also continued to grow. I’m grateful to be part of my current company. Interacting with people from diverse backgrounds and with varying personalities has been a practical lesson in psychology. The concepts I’ve read about in books, articles, and watched in videos have finally come to life through my interactions with colleagues.
And speaking of colleagues, 2024 also brought me a wonderful gift: I found my people. I connected with a small group of friends, each with distinct personalities, but with one hilarious common denominator: a shared love of pranking each other. They’re incredibly funny, and because there’s a bit of a gap in our ages, they sometimes make innocent blunders without even realizing it. It’s all in good fun, and I try to let them navigate their own experiences, both in life and in their careers. I cherish these friendships and accept their quirks, knowing that they accept me for who I am—or at least, I hope they do! Haha.
I wouldn’t have survived 2024 without my incredibly strong support system, my “other half of the sky,” Loren Marquez. She has been there through everything—the happiest moments and the saddest, most difficult times of my life. I’ve survived every year because of her unwavering guidance and support. She has kept me afloat during times when I felt like giving up and quitting life altogether. Thank you, Lors! I cannot imagine my life without you anymore.
Looking ahead to 2025, I’m filled with positivity and a desire to continue learning and growing. I have big dreams and plans, and I’m eager to pursue them. Despite the hardships and stress that 2024 brought, I’m deeply thankful for all the experiences, both good and bad. They have shaped me into the person I am today and have prepared me for the future.
